After long and deep thought searching, the real reason why dating in CA is bad is the word choices. Since CA is a Libra state, women tend to weigh their choices whether to go out with a guy or do something else with friends.
I will use my situation as an example. Let's say I asked a girl named Kelly to go to Starbucks with me two weeks in advanced. Now as the week progresses, she could tell her friends she is going to see me.
Her friends will suggest a concert or movie with them. So you have to ask yourself which would you rather do with Kelly? Even if Kelly wants to go out with me, she would rather do the concert and movie over Starbucks.
This is the problem with dating in CA. The person you want to go with has too many choices. Too many choices will not get the date with that gal. I bet if I was going to fly to Amsterdam, she would dump her friends concert trip and would rather hop on the plane with me.
These things happened before and it's sad there are no simple dates anymore. It's all about where, how much and who's going. The influence of friends is bad. They prevent real good dates and opinions from getting someone to really want to meet this wonderful guy.
I will use my situation as an example. Let's say I asked a girl named Kelly to go to Starbucks with me two weeks in advanced. Now as the week progresses, she could tell her friends she is going to see me.
Her friends will suggest a concert or movie with them. So you have to ask yourself which would you rather do with Kelly? Even if Kelly wants to go out with me, she would rather do the concert and movie over Starbucks.
This is the problem with dating in CA. The person you want to go with has too many choices. Too many choices will not get the date with that gal. I bet if I was going to fly to Amsterdam, she would dump her friends concert trip and would rather hop on the plane with me.
These things happened before and it's sad there are no simple dates anymore. It's all about where, how much and who's going. The influence of friends is bad. They prevent real good dates and opinions from getting someone to really want to meet this wonderful guy.
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