Is it real?

After going through alot of disappointments in dating, I wonder whether these women I flirt with are actually interested in me or it is just a dream. Learning the difference between their actions and what they say is the most important thing to note.

If women I know reading my blog, let me ask you this question: If you are really interested in dating me, what action would you take to show me that you are really interested and wanting to date.

Options:

- Ask me out for coffee or a non alcoholic drink.

- I am a cheap date so don't expect me to flash money to impress you.

- We can buy bottled drinks at Whole Foods, Lazy Acres or Trader Joes.

Even if we have some sort of communication, your actions and really asking me out and taking the time to spend time with me means something. I don't expect a perfect date. I want a woman that is real and just want to go out and see where this goes.

The Alchemist PT 2

Dave works at a yoga studio. Part time work with some free perks like free yoga classes. He just helps out in checking in people at the studio. Dave was given an eviction notice by his landlord due to some housing issues that the landlord cannot comply with.

Arielle is in the middle of cooking and she can hear foot steps down the hall. She turns off her veggie curry simmering in the gas range. She opens the door and sees Dave moving in next to her place. She extends a helping hand introduces herself to Dave.

Arielle realizes something about Dave that she can't point her finger.

Arielle: Hi I'm Arielle

Dave: I'm Dave

Dave felt something strange in his body and was about to pass out. Arielle try to keep Dave from collapsing on the floor. Arielle invites Dave into her place for a drink of water and offers Dave veggie curry and basmati rice.

Dave is grateful for her hospitality and that same night, he was getting unsettling dreams.

Long Line

Just because there are women that want to get to know me does not mean they are committed to get to know me. I learned the hard way with you know who and not committing to make the effort. Women have to commit to a date or at least make the effort to text the day before or night if they can't make it. I will see if women really mean it when they want me to see them or they just want me to take the class for them to make money.

Peoples intentions are strange. This is why I stand by my convictions about dating in CA.

Oatmeal

It's interesting to find out that oatmeal does help relieve itchy skin. Just by using quick oats. It is something to take note.

Beach Visit

I was at the beach on top of the awkwardness that my former coworker did to me. Three things that made it a good day regardless of how I was ignored. One, a female at the pier asked me about my dreadlocks. I told her how to do it. I even got her to join any kind of yoga. Two, I was able to relax and listen to music and do lots of people watching. Three, two women who walked by me before crossing the street holding hands decided to follow me and sit by me in the back. Made a "ahem" sound while prepping their hair. This one made my day because of all the work I have done in yoga is paying off. Even two girls were checking me out. I smiled at both of them and they wanted me to make the move. I did not do it because one I was waiting for my friend to show up so I can say hi. These two girls are my validation. Validation of the thing I wanted most which was a relationship. Flirting is fun and being at the beach was much needed. They decided to walk to the pier since I was not even talking to both of them. They were both hot. And yes I would hang out and socialize with girls like that. I just needed my space and whoever those two girls are, I will see them again at the beach or at yoga at another area.