Today I was going to visit a former co worker. What ended as a visit and a hello became and awkward scene. I was disappointed and hurt. At least I know she is okay and doing well.
Sunday, April 19, 2015
A Fiction and Non Fiction Past Life
This one is dedicated to a friend that I wanted to say hi to but walked away from me and smiled. This one is for you:
In the South Pacific, there is an island called Pitcairn Island. British sailors were sailing when they stumbled upon the island. Many villagers wanted to get saved by leaving the island. A mother and baby infant was one of the ones saved. When the British sailors got to England, the mother and infant learned english. The sailor felt bad for the mother and daughter and made sure they were taken care of by his in laws. That British sailor took the baby in his arms and told him that she is loved and one day will be the future governor of Australia.
That mother and daughter worked their way up in society until England took hold of Australia and decided to move there. The daughter decided to be part of the government of England until one day was the first woman to ever hold office in Australia. No one knows whatever happened to that British sailor that saved them.
Another story:
After faithful service to Italy, a man became friends with a woman that changed his life. Her best friend became this man's wife. Even to the man's death, this woman came to pay her respects to him. In his life, being grateful for the friendship. He learned more about this woman and the women who are educated and is respectable in society. He is forever grateful to her.
Even in this lifetime, I don't understand why things happen the way they did. It's not something to complain about but to appreciate life itself and the different karma between two people.
In the South Pacific, there is an island called Pitcairn Island. British sailors were sailing when they stumbled upon the island. Many villagers wanted to get saved by leaving the island. A mother and baby infant was one of the ones saved. When the British sailors got to England, the mother and infant learned english. The sailor felt bad for the mother and daughter and made sure they were taken care of by his in laws. That British sailor took the baby in his arms and told him that she is loved and one day will be the future governor of Australia.
That mother and daughter worked their way up in society until England took hold of Australia and decided to move there. The daughter decided to be part of the government of England until one day was the first woman to ever hold office in Australia. No one knows whatever happened to that British sailor that saved them.
Another story:
After faithful service to Italy, a man became friends with a woman that changed his life. Her best friend became this man's wife. Even to the man's death, this woman came to pay her respects to him. In his life, being grateful for the friendship. He learned more about this woman and the women who are educated and is respectable in society. He is forever grateful to her.
Even in this lifetime, I don't understand why things happen the way they did. It's not something to complain about but to appreciate life itself and the different karma between two people.
Action
The one crucial factor in finding out if someone is really interested in you is how they act. That is the biggest factor in dating. When they say something, it's nice to hear but their actions is what they really do. I was listening to some advice on YouTube and I am glad this person kept reminding me.
Last night Gretchen kept showing up as a reminder. There is no looking back. She screwed herself over. It made her look bad. Like I said there is nothing she can do to get back into my circle. She made a decision to choose her friends over going out with me thinking I was easy going and going to change my schedule for her.
It doesn't work like that. It opens doors to other women who will go out with me and the ones who doesn't just say they want to go but actually mean it. I already mention that I am a cheap date on FB. I like to say it because why would I want to spend alot of money?
Last night Gretchen kept showing up as a reminder. There is no looking back. She screwed herself over. It made her look bad. Like I said there is nothing she can do to get back into my circle. She made a decision to choose her friends over going out with me thinking I was easy going and going to change my schedule for her.
It doesn't work like that. It opens doors to other women who will go out with me and the ones who doesn't just say they want to go but actually mean it. I already mention that I am a cheap date on FB. I like to say it because why would I want to spend alot of money?
Saturday, April 18, 2015
Cheap Date(No Gold Diggers)
I love cheap dates. If you really love someone, they would not mind going out with you to free events and cheap food or a picnic with take out. Yes I am a cheap date so no gold digger females. If you are in my yoga class and you read this, go find a guy that will spend more on you. I look for quality women not women who look for someone in a flashy car or someone with lots of zeros in their account. The cheapest you get on a date with me is a $1.09 for milk tea. Eat at home and save your money.
The Reason Why Dating In CA Is No Good
After long and deep thought searching, the real reason why dating in CA is bad is the word choices. Since CA is a Libra state, women tend to weigh their choices whether to go out with a guy or do something else with friends.
I will use my situation as an example. Let's say I asked a girl named Kelly to go to Starbucks with me two weeks in advanced. Now as the week progresses, she could tell her friends she is going to see me.
Her friends will suggest a concert or movie with them. So you have to ask yourself which would you rather do with Kelly? Even if Kelly wants to go out with me, she would rather do the concert and movie over Starbucks.
This is the problem with dating in CA. The person you want to go with has too many choices. Too many choices will not get the date with that gal. I bet if I was going to fly to Amsterdam, she would dump her friends concert trip and would rather hop on the plane with me.
These things happened before and it's sad there are no simple dates anymore. It's all about where, how much and who's going. The influence of friends is bad. They prevent real good dates and opinions from getting someone to really want to meet this wonderful guy.
I will use my situation as an example. Let's say I asked a girl named Kelly to go to Starbucks with me two weeks in advanced. Now as the week progresses, she could tell her friends she is going to see me.
Her friends will suggest a concert or movie with them. So you have to ask yourself which would you rather do with Kelly? Even if Kelly wants to go out with me, she would rather do the concert and movie over Starbucks.
This is the problem with dating in CA. The person you want to go with has too many choices. Too many choices will not get the date with that gal. I bet if I was going to fly to Amsterdam, she would dump her friends concert trip and would rather hop on the plane with me.
These things happened before and it's sad there are no simple dates anymore. It's all about where, how much and who's going. The influence of friends is bad. They prevent real good dates and opinions from getting someone to really want to meet this wonderful guy.
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