Action

The one crucial factor in finding out if someone is really interested in you is how they act. That is the biggest factor in dating. When they say something, it's nice to hear but their actions is what they really do. I was listening to some advice on YouTube and I am glad this person kept reminding me.

Last night Gretchen kept showing up as a reminder. There is no looking back. She screwed herself over. It made her look bad. Like I said there is nothing she can do to get back into my circle. She made a decision to choose her friends over going out with me thinking I was easy going and going to change my schedule for her.

It doesn't work like that. It opens doors to other women who will go out with me and the ones who doesn't just say they want to go but actually mean it. I already mention that I am a cheap date on FB. I like to say it because why would I want to spend alot of money?

Cheap Date(No Gold Diggers)

I love cheap dates. If you really love someone, they would not mind going out with you to free events and cheap food or a picnic with take out. Yes I am a cheap date so no gold digger females. If you are in my yoga class and you read this, go find a guy that will spend more on you. I look for quality women not women who look for someone in a flashy car or someone with lots of zeros in their account. The cheapest you get on a date with me is a $1.09 for milk tea. Eat at home and save your money.

The Reason Why Dating In CA Is No Good

After long and deep thought searching, the real reason why dating in CA is bad is the word choices. Since CA is a Libra state, women tend to weigh their choices whether to go out with a guy or do something else with friends.

I will use my situation as an example. Let's say I asked a girl named Kelly to go to Starbucks with me two weeks in advanced. Now as the week progresses, she could tell her friends she is going to see me.

Her friends will suggest a concert or movie with them. So you  have to ask yourself which would you rather do with Kelly? Even if Kelly wants to go out with me, she would rather do the concert and movie over Starbucks.

This is the problem with dating in CA. The person you want to go with has too many choices. Too many choices will not get the date with that gal. I bet if I was going to fly to Amsterdam, she would dump her friends concert trip and would rather hop on the plane with me.

These things happened before and it's sad there are no simple dates anymore. It's all about where, how much and who's going. The influence of friends is bad. They prevent real good dates and opinions from getting someone to really want to meet this wonderful guy.

Get Over It

People like to say that phrase alot and it shows ignorance. People don't want to hear it. I been eating alot since yesterday. Coping with my sadness with someone I really want to get to know better. It showed me that women in CA like to make excuses. They have the whatever personality that foreigners hate.

Her carelessness and disregard to my feelings have been violated. I am crying at times. Angry and frustrated about the dating scene in the US. I try to look at the bright side, the fact that her jealous streak will come out because these other women at yoga class is now going to make their move.

I bet if it were her friends, she would drop everything to see them. She lost my trust and belief in her. Her friend is my yoga instructor. I had to cancel my Sun yoga with him because I won't be able to make people laugh.

This happened before with other women. Women who think they can just play games and use their whatever personality and duality and ADD to cover up their reality and truth. Truth is I am hurting inside. Hurting because women in CA are too inconsistent. They have so many choices that they miss the one in front of them. The one who really wanted to go out.

I know when I meet better quality women, these women are going to change my life. They will say what they mean and they will be considerate and upfront. No CA head games and pretentious personality. This is why I tell people, don't date women in CA. Date someone outside of the country or another state. My advice for people coming to CA for a relationship, don't go here unless you are expecting to get hurt. Get someone from your own state or other country then come to CA. Don't come single and move to CA. Come to CA if you are in a relationship.

I can't wait to leave this place and go somewhere I can be happy. Not putting up with fake women.

Unhappy

I was supposed to go out with this one red head today at the Buddhist Temple. She "overslept" when she knows we had plans to go out today. Very irresponsible of her and disregard to my feelings. I planned this for two weeks and she wants to go tomorrow? Why? Does my plans have to work out with hers when she knows we were going to go out. I got rid of her on FB and my text. Sorry G you blew your chance. You showed me that even with good intentions, you get distracted alot and you can't even commit to one date to have a good time and you want me to make up for your mistake by seeing you on a Friday.

I did that with many girls where I would move my schedule to fit theirs. No more. No text saying I cannot make it because I stayed up late and hung with friends and at least say she doesn't want to go.

All I can say is you caused me to get hurt and I am sad and disappointed. Don't even try to apologize by going to class on Sunday. I am grateful that there are many girls in my class that would take that chance with me. You cannot pick who you want to go out with and choose not to wake up and make a commitment. That's a dual natured person. You have to treat each person with understanding.

If there are women here from my yoga class that is single and you want to go out with me, you have to be consistent with your actions and say what you mean and you cannot say "whatever" because you think you can get away with it.