I am so grateful where I am in my life. The one woman that I always had a crush on finally made me notice her. In my past, I always missed my chance to meet women. I am not rushing into a relationship. It took me about 2 years for her to notice me.
Why that long? Well, just because I meet someone right away, does not mean I have to ask them out and find out later on that person is not who I am supposed to be with. No expectations on my part. I don't know to what extent she really likes me but I am learning to read body language and how they talk to me.
The one thing I can tell people is really pay attention to the opposite sex. Even if they are talking in a calm voice, smiling and you are having coffee with them, it does not say much about how they feel about you.
I went out with someone and I had a good time but I was not interesting enough for them. That was my past. The good part is the more I take care of myself, the more women come and take notice.
I will take her out on a casual date. It's not certain whether or not she will say yes. All I know is I asked and suggested we go out to lunch. It's not easy when the past you hold brings memories of hurt.
Why that long? Well, just because I meet someone right away, does not mean I have to ask them out and find out later on that person is not who I am supposed to be with. No expectations on my part. I don't know to what extent she really likes me but I am learning to read body language and how they talk to me.
The one thing I can tell people is really pay attention to the opposite sex. Even if they are talking in a calm voice, smiling and you are having coffee with them, it does not say much about how they feel about you.
I went out with someone and I had a good time but I was not interesting enough for them. That was my past. The good part is the more I take care of myself, the more women come and take notice.
I will take her out on a casual date. It's not certain whether or not she will say yes. All I know is I asked and suggested we go out to lunch. It's not easy when the past you hold brings memories of hurt.
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