I know it may sound harsh to let go of someone you really wanted to get to know. Yes the main reason is the excuse. I have to trust based on people's action when they don't follow through or make the effort to communicate. If they keep thinking and not say anything to make things better, it tells me they don't care. They would rather pretend to live this wonderful life and say wonderful things to people but do they really mean what they say? Was it just because it sounds nice. If she makes the effort to find and communicate with me, then yes but if no response or no action, then it tells me that I have to find someone else.
Saturday, July 18, 2015
Friday, July 17, 2015
Reschedule
I learned when a woman says they want to meet on a Sat and all of a sudden after a couple of days, they make an excuse "I can't go out with you because I promised my mom lunch on a Sat." That tells me going out with me is not important. This is the reason why women in California are not good. It tells me that someone who says "Hey, let's go out with a $500 lunch at some snazzy restaurant", they will reschedule everything else since they know they will be eating somewhere expensive.
A person who really wants to go out with you will make time for you to see you. Even if they promise someone else, they can reschedule that errand unless they tell you" I can have lunch with my mom on Sat and afterwards we can still go out and have coffee and I will drop of my mom at her house." Women in California think that they can do that and play games with men with excuses. I will say that when there is money involved and business transactions, they will have to commit to it because it is on a contract.
Los Angeles/Orange County is the worse for finding dates. All the years I lived in CA, it is better to date out of state women before they buy into the bs California mentality.
A person who really wants to go out with you will make time for you to see you. Even if they promise someone else, they can reschedule that errand unless they tell you" I can have lunch with my mom on Sat and afterwards we can still go out and have coffee and I will drop of my mom at her house." Women in California think that they can do that and play games with men with excuses. I will say that when there is money involved and business transactions, they will have to commit to it because it is on a contract.
Los Angeles/Orange County is the worse for finding dates. All the years I lived in CA, it is better to date out of state women before they buy into the bs California mentality.
Thursday, July 16, 2015
Fictional Date W/ Jessi
I finally asked this one female that I always wanted to ask out on a date. She is much taller than me. We went to a tea place after she taught her class. I had a conversation with her about her goals in life and I really asked point blank how she felt about me.
I suggested we drink London Lime which is a refreshing drink made with tea. It didn't take long for Jessi to really open up to me. What I love about her is the fact that she opened up to me. I did not know how she felt about me even though her work kept her busy.
I know I tried to ask her out but she always had an excuse. Finally she made the effort to see me. I felt that she was not sure how I felt about her and getting to know outside of work.
After our drink, we took a walk to the college and I noticed she was holding my hand while we were walking. That's when I knew there was something more to this date. She did give hints and each time she did, I would always ask her how she felt and if she was okay with having a real relationship. Not just dating but something much serious.
I suggested we drink London Lime which is a refreshing drink made with tea. It didn't take long for Jessi to really open up to me. What I love about her is the fact that she opened up to me. I did not know how she felt about me even though her work kept her busy.
I know I tried to ask her out but she always had an excuse. Finally she made the effort to see me. I felt that she was not sure how I felt about her and getting to know outside of work.
After our drink, we took a walk to the college and I noticed she was holding my hand while we were walking. That's when I knew there was something more to this date. She did give hints and each time she did, I would always ask her how she felt and if she was okay with having a real relationship. Not just dating but something much serious.
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