Slow and Stubborn

There are people in the world that sometimes just don't get it. They want to go with their own schedule even when they know that certain places have limited parking during peak hours. They don't like to be rushed.

The problem with people like this is this..they don't drive to do their own thing. They are needy and can't do it themselves. They are ignorant to learn what's really going on.

If you are supposed to meet people at 10am, you have to do whatever it takes to get there early. Even if you have to wake up way early. I am so glad that other countries feel the need to be punctual in their commitments.

The Alchemist PT 3

Dave went into a dream state that same night after his initial meeting with Arielle. Shadowy figures are being shown to him and it doesn't look good and his dream ends.

The next morning Arielle is doing her morning jog around the block. She sees a couple of men bully a stranger. They take notice of her and they start to run towards her. Luckily Dave was nearby when these men are chasing Arielle.

These men surround Arielle in some odd stare with eyes that are eerie and a slight glow. The men mumble to themselves repeating "she is the one we seek.".

Dave arrives to the scene and talks to the men in front of Arielle.

Dave: Leave her be. You have no business being here.

*Dave shows his palms to the men and they walk away*

Arielle is in shock at what just happened right before her eyes. Her neighbor just got rid of strange men with only the palm of his hands.

Original Place

I talked to sis awhile back. I did not know Dad and Mom back then wanted to move to Canada. Knowing that makes me happy and validated. I know I have something worthwhile to work on. I am setting up the things I need to do to make Canada a reality.

I know many people I talked to told me to "always think about the place you want to be" and to see yourself there. I know I see myself there even when I do business in the US. Having access to that reality is something I want.

That's another thing my future GF will have to ask herself if she wants to move to Canada with me. It is not a case of whether I should or not. I know where I am going and she doesn't have to go with me if she does not want to.

She can stay in the US and do her own thing. I have my wishes being fulfilled and Canada is within reach. Having that said, I got lots to work on like learning French as a third/fourth language. I guess it would not be bad to learn German and Russian too over there. I am sure there are Swedes there too.

Being doing my research to the cities in Canada I want to live. I also want my yoga certification over there. That would be the most raddest thing ever!

My Mistake

I had some interesting "dates" in my life. The difference between my younger self and now is what I gathered over the years about dating in general. It is not a complete solution for men in general because most men who are in "the know", have their own way of dating women and whatever they use works for them. I still going to stick to my ways but with adjustments.

The thing I am tired about asking women out are the flaky ones who say they will go with you and they never show up or they get a better offer from someone else. I felt that being put in that situation really hurts me. My yoga practice and working on getting better physically better is going to help me land dates better.

For those of you women in my circle or yoga classes, here it is. I made the decision not to ask women out on a date. The women have to ask me out on a date. I learned that asking women out does not work for me and my success rate with that is about 20%. I like assertive women who ask me out for coffee. I am not going the traditional route and why should I. I should be more focused on quality dates with women not women who just want someone to be on the side if they have other options.

I don't have to listen to any guy or person that tells me I should be the one asking. You are not me and I am not you. What works for you, only works for you. I am going to do my own thing.

Questions

This is for that woman that chose me to be her bf:

I want you to think about this before going out with me so you will know if I am the one you are supposed to go out with.

Q. What do I have to do to make you feel secure in our relationship when I work and talk with so many women as friends, colleagues and business associates?

Q. Are you okay with dealing with lots of different viewpoints and with someone who has different beliefs and values? For example Buddhist and Asian values.

Q. What do you believe your true strengths are? Trust? Truthful? Business oriented? Balanced? Assertive?

Q. What about dealing with both sides in terms of relatives? How do you balance family relationships between two different families?

Q. How do you handle jealousy, envy and possessiveness?

Q. Are you open to learning other values of others and their culture?

Q. Do you believe that political beliefs are important in a relationship?

Q. If you and I had a very long, loud, heated argument and we both are mad at each other, what can we both do to make up for our differences?

Q. What is the most common activity do both of us enjoy to be closer to each other? For example doing yoga or taking a seminar.

Q. If you had an opportunity to open a business, which business would you open and why?